Private Spiritual Readings

Spiritual Readings are an excellent way to access healing for those whose grief from the loss of a loved one is disabling them from moving forward with their life. Or maybe, you have reached a point in your life when you need extra guidance from a loved one. I have studied extensively at the world renowned Arthur Findlay College, Stansted Hall.

Guidance when going to see a medium for a private sitting.

A private sitting is a form of spirit communication on a one-to-one basis, in private which allows the medium to go into greater depth and give personal information from the spirit world which cannot be done in a public setting.

Spiritualists know that attempts to communicate with spirit are, by there very nature, experimental and results can never be guaranteed. Most people are happy with their sitting and they receive information that could only have originated from people in the spirit world. However, if the medium is unable to link with your spirit loved ones, or if you are unsatisfied within the first 10 minutes with a private sitting, then you can request a refund of any fee paid.

Spiritualist mediums aim for a private sitting to be both evidential in nature and an enjoyable experience. If, however, you seek a sitting to talk about Spiritualism in general, if you seek a spiritual assessment or other life guidance, then you should discuss this with the medium first.

Frequently Asked Questions

Will I have my fortune told?
Spiritualist mediums do not “tell fortunes.” What they will do is attempt to provide you with evidence of the survival of the human soul after death. Sometimes your spirit friends will give their opinions and advice to help you in your life but our mediums avoid giving the sort of information that ‘fortune tellers’ tend to give.

Is it frightening?
Because of preconceived ideas and misinformation in the media some find going to see a medium as worrying. But be rest reassured that there is nothing to worry about and that spirit communication is a natural process. The people in the spirit world who communicate are, in the main, people who knew you and cared for you when they were alive on earth, there is no reason why you should be frightened of them.

What if they tell me something I don’t want to know?
Generally, your spirit friends and relatives will not tell you anything that is going to worry or upset you and Spiritualist mediums are taught to be very careful with the information that they pass on.

Can they tell my future?
Because spirit people are unburdened by physical minds and material influences, they can sometimes take a much broader and long-sighted view of the likely outcome of our actions. Then, of course, they will try to make us aware of these likely situations before they arise.

Does a medium know everything about me?
The medium generally knows absolutely nothing about you before the sitting begins. Some mediums will be able to ‘sense things psychically’ about you, such as your health, emotional state etc., but during the sitting the medium will only know those facts about your life that the spirit people choose to tell them. However, your spirit friends will respect your privacy and any information of a very private or personal nature will not be revealed, unless it is important to the communication. Spiritualist mediums keep absolutely all information they receive as confidential, and much of what they say is soon forgotten by them after a sitting has ended.

Should I think about the person/people I want a message from?
You can if you wish, sometimes this can be helpful as the bond of love between you and your spirit friends can be a strong connecting link. But Spiritualists stress that there is absolutely no guarantee that a message from any particular individual will come through. Remember mediums are completely dependent upon the wishes of the spirit people to communicate. Mediums cannot “call them up”, it is spirit who decide whether to communicate or not. Generally, concentrating or the desire to have a specific person communicate is not recommended as it can limit the ability of other spirit people who are there to talk with you.

Is there anything I can do to make my sitting more successful?
Keep an open mind. Try not to limit your thoughts to one or two people, your message could be from anyone you have known, or even people who passed over before you were born. Be honest with the medium, if you can’t understand a part of your message, say so, and the medium will try to clarify it for you. Be honest with yourself, don’t say ‘No’ just to be awkward, and don’t say ‘Yes’ just to be helpful. As far as you can have hopeful, positive and friendly thoughts toward the medium and those spirit people who do come to communicate.

Keep these few simple guidelines in mind, and your sitting should be an experience to remember.

“The first peace, which is the most important, is that which comes from within the souls of men when they realise their relationship. their oneness, with the universe and all its powers, and when they realise that at the centre of the universe dwells Wakan-Tanka, and that this centre is really everywhere, it is within each of us. This is the real peace, and the others are but reflections of this. The second peace is that which is made between two individuals, and the third is that which is made between two nations. But above all you should understand that there can never be peace between nations until there is first known that true peace which is within the souls of men.”

Black Elk

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